so apparently it became cool somewhere down the line to curse like a sailor and smoke and drink. i guess i missed the "cool" bus or whatever, cause im pretty sure those are privileges reserved for douchebags, but whatever. i mean, i just dont understand. i know there were those who were basically destined for that because they faked their way through christian school and whatnot, but what about the couple who seemed genuine? was that all fake? what about the real moments ive had with them? is the pressure to be accepted by other douchebags that great? when does morality get respected? and if it is respected, then why does no one strive for it?